Criticism...just how many of us criticize other people? If you are honest, we all do. Now we may not do it out loud or even with the intent to harm, but...we do. Research tells us that it takes the average person about seven seconds to form an opinion about someone...seven...seconds...that's pretty bad! You are probably wondering why I am going into all of this. Well, the answer is criticism is almost innate...automatic...and conditioned in us.

What you are about to read will challenge you. I am well aware of the fact that only about 20% of those who read this post will follow it up with action. Yes, it's disappointing but 20% is better than nothing. Plus...at this point, I am only interested in those who are truly serious about protecting the future of their next relationship. If you are casually reading this and are not serious about your next relationship succeeding, don't continue reading. Don't waste your time. However, if you are really interested in knowing the true keys to succeeding in your next relationship, this post is for you.

What you are about to read may shock you and as a result, I am certain that this post may offend some, so I will apologize in advance. But...what I am about to write has to be addressed. I sincerely care about the future of marriages, even if those marriages don't exist yet. I am about to reveal the secret behind the eternal question that 80% of women are notorious for asking; "Where are all the good men at?" My challenge for you is to read this post in its entirety without dismissing it.

Today I get to bare my heart. I want to share something with you that is near and dear to me. In this post, I will be more vulnerable than I have ever been in any post that I have written to date. I want to tell you the truth behind why I almost divorced my wife.